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		<title>What am I doing this weekend?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 06 Sep 2007 17:21:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[This weekend for me is actually jam packed with goodies. Here is a list of things that I will most likely get into: Tommorrow: -Gotta pick up my check first and deposit it in my account. -Try to hit the gym. Saturday, September 8th 2007 -Go grocery shopping with Everett (which I love to do [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=eclecticheart.wordpress.com&amp;blog=1622393&amp;post=36&amp;subd=eclecticheart&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em>This weekend for me is actually jam packed with goodies. Here is a list of things that I will most likely get into:</em></p>
<p><u><strong>Tommorrow:</strong></u></p>
<p>-Gotta pick up my check first and deposit it in my account.</p>
<p>-Try to hit the gym.</p>
<p><u><strong>Saturday, September 8th 2007</strong></u></p>
<p>-Go grocery shopping with Everett (which I love to do for some strange reason).</p>
<p>-Cook with Everett.</p>
<p>-Go to <a href="http://www.adamsmorgannow.com/" title="Adams Morgan" target="_blank">Adams Morgan</a> or <a href="http://www.ilovecollegepark.com/html/main/merchant_display/id/17475/index.html" title="RJ Bentley's" target="_blank">RJ Bentley&#8217;s</a> in the evening (most likely RJ&#8217;s).</p>
<p><u><strong>Sunday, September 9th 2007</strong></u></p>
<p>-Sleep in the morning (Since I will be getting in late from Adams Morgan).</p>
<p>-Make breakfast with Everett.</p>
<p>-Go to <a href="http://www.adamsmorgannow.com/" title="Adams Morgan" target="_blank">Adams Morgan</a> Day</p>
<p><strong>I hope you guys have a great weekend. I will update again ASAP!</strong></p>
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		<title>its the end&#8230;</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 06 Sep 2007 15:29:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Well, I basically ended my &#8220;best friendship&#8221; with Latoya. She is pretty much a fucking dumbass. Here is how it went: Last night, I logged onto my facebook and noticed that I had a message in my in-box. Guess from who? Yep, you guessed right. The Confused One. So, I opened it. It said: &#8220;WHY [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=eclecticheart.wordpress.com&amp;blog=1622393&amp;post=35&amp;subd=eclecticheart&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well, I basically ended my &#8220;best friendship&#8221; with <strike>Latoya</strike>. She is pretty much a fucking dumbass. Here is how it went:</p>
<p>Last night, I logged onto my facebook and noticed that I had a message in my in-box. Guess from who? Yep, you guessed right. The Confused One. So, I opened it. <strong>It said:</strong></p>
<p><em>&#8220;WHY WAS I NOT INVITED TO THE GAME? I WANNA GO TO ? <img src='http://s0.wp.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_sad.gif' alt=':(' class='wp-smiley' /> &#8220;</em></p>
<p><strong>She was referring to my status on my facebook stating , &#8220;Brittany is excited about attending the UMD vs. Clemson game on Oct. 27 with her love!&#8221; For some reason I was kind of glad that she saw it even though I wasn&#8217;t trying to hurt her feelings by not telling her. So, after I read her &#8220;well thought out messsge,&#8221; here is what I sent to her:</strong></p>
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<p class="text"><em>&#8220;oh, wow you FINALLY wanna hang out with me? oh, gosh i feel so honored! *note the sarcasm*&#8221;</em></p>
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<p class="message clearfix"><strong>This is when she started acting stupid: </strong></p>
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<p class="text"><em>&#8220;what you mean i finally wanna hang out you could have hung out with me the night i came to your house to go to the avenue&#8221;</em></p>
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<p class="message clearfix is_you"><strong>Wrong answer Confused One. Let us get things straight: </strong></p>
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<p class="text"><em>&#8220;i was kinda invited at the last minute. duh! i mean it is not like you called me and said, &#8220;hey, you wanna go to the club with us?&#8221; and you really didn&#8217;t invite me. i said, &#8220;i should go out with yall.&#8221; you gotta get things straight girl.&#8221;</em></p>
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<p class="msg_divide_bottom"><strong>So she comes back with some even gayer shit: </strong></p>
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<p class="text"><em>&#8220;U still could have went da club wasdnt even open yet&#8221;</em></p>
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<p class="msg_divide_bottom"><strong>She never understands shit. I am a deep thinker obviously, so that answer was not going to fly with me: </strong></p>
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<p class="text"><em>&#8220;wow, you truly don&#8217;t get it. imma kinda end this right here because i don&#8217;t feel that i should keep explaining things to you like that. all im going to say is this: if you knew you were going to go to the club, and if we are &#8220;supposedly&#8221; friends then you would think that i would possibly want to go. but, ya didn&#8217;t. i know that if one of my old friends invited me to the club or something, i would call you and tell you about it. bye.&#8221;</em></p>
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<p class="message clearfix"><strong>So, then she wants to make things even more confusing for herself: </strong></p>
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<p class="text"><em>&#8220;i didn&#8217;t know untill the last minute that we were goin untill this boy that was promoting it gave us an invite and that was late&#8221;</em></p>
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<p class="message clearfix is_you"><strong>Ok, here is when I try to actually end shit: </strong></p>
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<p class="text"><em>&#8220;ok, whatever.&#8221;</em></p>
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<p class="message clearfix"><strong>Obviously the wrong answer for her: </strong></p>
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<p class="text"><em>&#8220;what are you mad about it now?&#8221;</em></p>
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<p class="message clearfix is_you"><strong>Who said anybody was mad? Do I have to be mad to express myself?:</strong></p>
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<p class="text"><em>&#8220;no, i ended it a long time ago. don&#8217;t you read?&#8221;</em></p>
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<p class="message clearfix"><strong>Tee hee. </strong></p>
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<p class="text"><em>&#8220;ok smart ass whatever&#8221;</em></p>
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<p class="message clearfix is_you"><strong>No, bitch I said I was ending it.</strong></p>
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<p class="text"><em>&#8220;yep, i am a smart-ass. kinda proud of it too. <img src='http://s0.wp.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> &#8220;</em></p>
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<p class="message clearfix"><strong>She didn&#8217;t like that. I loved it. </strong></p>
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<p class="text"><em>&#8220;I thought you ended it y r you still talkin&#8221;</em></p>
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<p class="message clearfix is_you"><strong>And here is the answer to that: </strong></p>
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<p class="text"><em>&#8220;because i can do whatever the hell i want. that&#8217;s pretty much why <strike>latoya</strike>.&#8221;</em></p>
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<p class="message clearfix"><strong>Now she wants to stop talking: </strong></p>
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<p class="text"><em>ok brittany goodbye</em></p>
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<p class="message clearfix is_you"><strong>And I am extremely happy to be dismissed:</strong></p>
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<p class="text"><em>byez!</em></p>
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<p class="text">First off, the bitch can&#8217;t spell. There is a thing call<em> online lingo</em> and then there is <strong>grammar</strong>.  She is lacking in the grammar and spelling department. She didn&#8217;t think about shit that she said because,  if she found out about the club invite then she should have called me. And also, she fucking forgot about what she told me when she came to my house:</p>
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<p class="text"><em>&#8220;Yeah, we went out to get these clothes for the club. It took us a while to find the shorts though. We had to go to the <strong>maternity section</strong> for those.&#8221;</em></p>
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<p class="text">Ok, now correct me if I am wrong, but if you had time to buy clothes for the club, then you would have had time to call me, right? And is your body that jacked that you have to buy maternity clothes for the club just so they fit right? Maybe she thought that they could be used for that bastard baby she will conceive soon. Dumb bitch.</p>
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<p class="text">Wow, it feels so great to vent and I am glad that I ended that. After that whole conversation I deleted her from my friends list from both my <strong>facebook</strong> and my <strong>myspace</strong>. I just totally ended shit which feels like a great weight had been lifted off of my shoulders.</p>
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		<title>time for a change so soon&#8230;</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 05 Sep 2007 15:08:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Wow. I am already for a new blog because, I really can&#8217;t stand the fact that I can&#8217;t edit my themes or anything. I should have known that this wouldn&#8217;t have worked because I really don&#8217;t like being limited. So, I decided that when I get home from work, I am going to sign up [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=eclecticheart.wordpress.com&amp;blog=1622393&amp;post=33&amp;subd=eclecticheart&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em>Wow</em>. I am already for a new blog because, I really can&#8217;t stand the fact that I can&#8217;t <strong>edit my themes</strong> or anything. I should have known that this wouldn&#8217;t have worked because I really don&#8217;t like being <strong>limited</strong>. So, I decided that when I get home from work, I am going to sign up with a host and create a <em>wordpress.ORG</em> account and close off this <strike>wordpress.com</strike>. I will keep the site name <strong>ECLECTICHEART</strong>, but I won&#8217;t be satisfied until everything is ready to go. In the meantime, I will keep blogging here just keep my readers (if I have any) updated. I will post a <strong>new site URL</strong> soon. <em>If anyone who actually reads my blog has any suggestions  don&#8217;t hesitate to post.</em> Now, on to other things.</p>
<p>I should have placed this in an older entry, but who cares. <em>I am doing it now.</em> Last Sunday night, my <em>&#8220;best friend&#8221;</em> <strong>Latoya</strong> and her friend <strong>Danielle</strong> came to my house around 8&#8242;ish. It was the <em>most random shit</em> ever. To start it all off I recieve <strong>2 phone calls</strong> from her, but I decided not to pick them up because she has been <em>pretty flaky</em> lately. Then, not even 5 minutes after my phone stops ringing, I hear that gay-ass buzzing noise from my intercom. It was Latoya and Danielle. They came up in my house dressed like the <strong>hoochie mommas</strong> of the year. They dressed so much alike it was <em>fucking scary</em>! They had on these black slutty <em>&#8220;show everybody your shit&#8221;</em> shirts and these really short <em>booty shorts</em>. The only difference between the two outfits was that Latoya had on <strong>heels</strong> and Danielle had on the <strong>fugliest fur-trimmed boots </strong>I have ever seen. I was kinda shocked and humored at the same time. And get this: <em>The only reason why they came to my place was to park in my parking lot for </em><strong>FREE</strong><em><strong> </strong>so they could just walk around the corner to club Avenue.</em> They didn&#8217;t invite me or anything. It was a free night also. I thought it was kinda harsh because every special little event I go to, I <strong>always</strong> invite Latoya. And when she gets around Danielle she is a whole different person. <em>She is sluttier.</em></p>
<p>So, I was like, <em>&#8220;Maybe I should come?&#8221;</em> I just wanted to see her <em>reaction.</em> She wasn&#8217;t very excited about the idea of me hanging around them. Like I was some <em>unwanted third wheel</em> or some shit. &#8220;Yeah, you should come.&#8221; was all she said. <em>Blank, fake-ass tone and all</em>. I don&#8217;t understand some <em>females</em>. When you call them your best friend or whatever and you guys are cool for a while, <em>there is always one that is all buddy-buddy in your face</em>. But, when she gets around someone else, <em>shit changes</em>. <strong>I don&#8217;t like that fake shit.</strong> That is probably why I only like hanging out with guys. <em>They are real and straight-forward like shit.</em> And they are fucking funny.</p>
<p>Oh, and here is the other thing. I told her to call me when she leaves the club so I would know when they got back to my parking lot. She couldn&#8217;t even do that shit. She was probably drunk as hell or getting fucked. I don&#8217;t know.</p>
<p><em>And here is another thing that I don&#8217;t understand about her. She is supposed to be &#8220;engaged&#8221; to this guy named John or whatever. She has known him for about 7 or 8 years. But, she was always dating and fucking other guys. Then all of a sudden, just recently, they decide that they want to be together and have a baby and get married and blah, blah, blah. <strong>WTF!</strong> How the hell are you gonna just not talk to a guy for years, fuck random dudes and decide you wanna get back together with him and say I am engaged. She has no money, she is living with her mother, and she is obviously confused about life.</em></p>
<p><em><strong>Here is how I think it should go:</strong></em></p>
<p>1) Save money (duh!)</p>
<p>2) Start searching for a nice apartment to call home.</p>
<p>3) Rent it out.</p>
<p>4) Save more money.</p>
<p>5) Wait until the right moment for marriage.</p>
<p>6) Get married (wedding bells)!</p>
<p>7) Then you <strong>think</strong> about having a child you dumb fuck!</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t know. Maybe I over analyzed it, but that seems more <em>logical</em>, don&#8217;t ya think?</p>
<p>And guess what else? <em>The nigga is in jail.</em> John is a fucking jail bird. He is charged for fucking <strong>grand theft auto.</strong> Now something doesn&#8217;t add up. <em>You say you love him or whatever, you are supposedly engaged to the muthafucka, he ends up in jail, and now what do you do? Go clubbing and fuck married niggas? And use no condom?</em> Wow, what a wonderful life that is.</p>
<p>Wow, I ranted way to much. <strong>But, I feel that it is time for me to make new and better friends.</strong> On to more positive things.</p>
<p>Last night was pretty chill. I picked up Josiah from the babysitters, came home and watched some tv with him, got on my laptop while he took a nap, made dinner (<em>lamb chops, broccoli, mixed veggies</em>), ate and went to bed. Nothing special.  <img src='http://s0.wp.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>pretty good day&#8230;</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 04 Sep 2007 02:27:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Today was a pretty good day. My mom finally went grocery shopping, but I got left with the kids again. Luckily, Everett was on his way home from his mother&#8217;s house this morning to help me out with the kids and other stuff. Then I had some lunch, surfed the web and helped re-twist his [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=eclecticheart.wordpress.com&amp;blog=1622393&amp;post=29&amp;subd=eclecticheart&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Today was a pretty good day. My mom finally went grocery shopping, but I got left with the kids <em>again</em>. Luckily, Everett was on his way home from his mother&#8217;s house this morning to help me out with the kids and other stuff. Then I had some lunch, surfed the web and helped re-twist his hair. After that he took a nap and I played with the baby and surfed the web some more.</p>
<p>After Everett woke up, we went and made these great bacon-cheeseburgers and potato wedges for dinner:</p>
<p><img src="http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1169/1316471817_6cecaea4a6_m.jpg" alt="Bacon Cheeseburger" align="left" border="0" height="180" width="240" /></p>
<p> <img src='http://s0.wp.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> :):)</p>
<p>Doesn&#8217;t that look great! They were so good. I am so full from eating it all.</p>
<p>Well, I am going to bed now because I gotta get up early tommorrow for work. <img src='http://s0.wp.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>why the hell!</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 03 Sep 2007 19:11:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I was watching the Rock of Love last night and I was quite pissed. Why the hell didn&#8217;t Brett get rid of fucking Lacey? She is the nut of the year!  Crazy slut!  Anyway, I hope Jes wins. To me its really between her and Heather. Heather just looks like botox gone horribly bad to [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=eclecticheart.wordpress.com&amp;blog=1622393&amp;post=27&amp;subd=eclecticheart&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I was watching the <a target="_blank" href="http://www.vh1.com/shows/dyn/rock_of_love/series.jhtml?source=globalnav" title="Rock of Love">Rock of Love</a> last night and I was quite pissed. Why the hell didn&#8217;t Brett get rid of fucking Lacey? She is the nut of the year! <img src='http://s0.wp.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_sad.gif' alt=':(' class='wp-smiley' />  Crazy slut!  Anyway, I hope Jes wins. To me its really between her and Heather. Heather just looks like botox gone horribly bad to me. And why the fuck did she get that fucking tattoo of Brett&#8217;s name on her <strong>neck</strong>!? Her and Lacey are uber-nuts. I can&#8217;t wait until next week&#8217;s show.</p>
<p>I will be back later on. <img src='http://s0.wp.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>1st entry&#8230; when will the search end?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 03 Sep 2007 01:25:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Well, this is obviously my first entry in my new blog. I just opened a new livejournal this month and closed it in the same month. It was to confusing for me, but at the same time I also feel that I could have made something of that livejournal layout wise. I basically needed a [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=eclecticheart.wordpress.com&amp;blog=1622393&amp;post=15&amp;subd=eclecticheart&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well, this is obviously my first entry in my new blog. I just opened a new livejournal this month and closed it in the same month. It was to confusing for me, but at the same time I also feel that I could have made something of that livejournal layout wise. I basically needed a new blog that was customizable with seperate pages, but not confusing when it came to making those pages. Now, I have that so Im good.</p>
<p>This weekend pretty much sucked except for me going to the store and shopping with the love of my life, Everett. We went all the way to the bank in Twinbrook to get some money out for my mom since I don&#8217;t get paid until some time in the middle of this week. Tommorrow is a holiday. I am not working so I can&#8217;t get my check until Tuesday maybe. So I had to borrow money from Everett (Evy) to give to my mother since I am supposed to give her 100 dollars a week for living costs. I wish I could move out, but she needs help with the baby. So yesterday, we had to go to his bank there in Twinbrook and then we went to Wheaton Mall and got some stuff for our bathroom and other miscellanious items.</p>
<p>Later on yesterday night, we ordered pizza, went across the street and got some vodka and chasers, and I had me a great screwdriver and some tasty slices. Then I tried to go to sleep, but then my mother, sister (who is visiting from school), and Josiah (baby cousin) came in the house, and  they dropped the baby off on me. They were going to leave early the next morning for some church thing in Newport News, Virginia. So me and Everett had to try to get the baby back to sleep like at 11PM. He finally got to sleep at like 1AM.</p>
<p>Today pretty much sucked to. I wanted to take the baby to the park today. Just me, Everett, and the baby. But, my mom calls me and tells me that my other cousin (who happens to be Josiah&#8217;s older sister), Yolea was coming over. So, we couldn&#8217;t go to the park because right after that Everett had to go to work and I couldn&#8217;t be stuck with both of them. So, we stayed in the house. All day. Boo.</p>
<p>And just and hour ago, I called my mom and we had this gay-ass argument about some stupid-ass plate in the fridge. God, she pisses me off!</p>
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